La vache de tête se fait fouetter le plus . Se dit d’un leader. (Proverbe Zulu – South Africa, Zimbabwe, Lesotho, Eswatini, Malawi, Mozambique).
The lead cow (the one in front) gets whipped the most . Said of a leader. (Zulu proverb – South Africa, Zimbabwe, Lesotho, Eswatini, Malawi, Mozambique).
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That is harsh, but so true. I know I’ve said this before, but I wish I would’ve heard something like that earlier in life.
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